He only has a single profile pic. I had 4 dates with 4 different men and 2 more wanted to date but were no shows. She stops seeing what online three months, and he appears to leave his girlfriend and felt compelled to. Dump him before he makes you act like an idiot. So what is up with men you meet online and how they still log in and show chat venue open. Then instead of apologizing he yelled at me for knowing. From this man asking me to be exclusive; I thought he really was into me.
I am not sure if I can handle knowing that he is with me and others. This friend since added me on facebook and so has his housemate. I threatened to break up with him and again he deleted the account and I basically stayed with him and began blaming myself for his behavior. I have been told by a close friend who is male that I need to be chased and show him that I am not at his beck and call. He was always sickly coz of the drugs but he kept on walking me n all doing all the things we used to do before that. We started being exclusive at least I was. Gaining my trust, after my past, is not an easy task and he has managed to do it.
First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating. It's guys like you, though, who are dishonest and only looking for attention, leading them on, even a little, and then dismissing them after only your needs are met, that hurt women and damage them and their self-esteem. One, as you mentioned, you see him signed into the dating site only when you are also logged into the dating site. He just seems to be in his own world of work, going to the gym and doing his hobbies and I am not being included. The first time I asked he claimed to answer an email without logging in to a woman who asked him a business related question. Im sooo scared to lose this guy and dont know what to think right now. He asked me when my last relationship was.
I just wanted to clarify based on the first response that I didn't meet this guy online and my having deleted my online profiles had nothing to do with meeting this guy. I called match to make sure I did not falsely accuse him of being online if he was not. Either his mom gets sick or he gets a flat tire or his mom gets sick again. I have already backed right off and only texted him yesterday after not hearing from him since my birthday which was 4 days before. Yeah, a deleted profile would be best or updated text but at least he has it heading in the right direction. I had been on a few dates from the site, and was just about to lose interest completely when I met him. I just wanted to give you an update.
But it simply proved too much of a let down for me. In addition to answer from Just me: He already has pictures of me, I have sent by phone and I asked him that he had been online, he said it was because he was checking whether I had been online, I have left it a week and sure enough he has been online in the last 24 hours. I know that he is on Match and is active not through his own admission, a friend did some detective work this weekend when I brought him to her party. Beware: he is not easily detectable at times. If i trust her the way i should then i need not to worry.
Perhaps this might help you as well. Maybe once my clean divorce goes through, things will feel different. Week four, another I love you, and a few more fun filled evenings. Moans about their ex, finds fault, is too busy, too involved, or too psycho. File the papers and go to a counselor to vent your feelings, not to your friends or your ex wife. Why does the man get to make all the rules here? What caught my attention later was his thoughts on dating.
He had not dated anyone else, and I believe him. Its long distance so we met for the first 2 weeks after talking and the date went perfectly, she even bought me dinner! At least, that's what he wants you to do. We have now been on 9 dates, and whenever we are together we have a good time, laughing and talking and really get along well together. Rather, I respect and enjoy working with and understanding men. I work, take care of my children , have a hobby and have always been shy and only slightly attractive. The online dating profile is tellng me that he is still keeping his options open just incase. I said it was up to him I want him to take it down because he wants to not because I want him to… I did say that him keeping his profile active made me feel that he wished to keep his options open and that if he wanted me to feel that way then to carry on.
We dated for two months before we became intimate and I just assumed that we were exclusive. Tell him what you told us- I logged in to shut down my account and saw you were still active. For many reasons, it is difficult for him to make room for something real. Oh Lawdy, my neighbor just came by to pick me up for our daily evening walk and I had her read this and this is what she said she is 62! I checked online today and it said that he was online today. When you bring up the fact that his profile is up, do you tell him that it bothers you? What do you all think about this guy? I enjoy spending time with him and we have great chemistry. I finally pushed him and he admitted he and she had a sexual relationship a long time ago and that he had lied but he felt nothing for her then or now.