My husband read the messages and now thinks that I am cheating on him event though my friend leaves in a different country. I hope someone still updates this thread. Surprisingly similar to my situation. I stupidly had an affair with an old girlfriend some 4 years ago, she fulfilled all the physical needs I had and more, but all I really wanted was an ok relationship with my wife who I love. Call the cops, get him gone and take care of your babes. I had to cut him out of my life at this point which has been so hard because I am in love with him. Well then she told me things things I hadn't seen things I wish I had things I wish shed spoken up about.
I knew she had a very troubled past and that we would have challenges, but I also knew that our love and our connection was so powerful that it would overcome. Hi i know what you are going through i have a 4 year old from previous relationship and a 5 month old with my husband n pregnant again by my husband he calls me everything under the sun and keeps accusing me of cheating men obviously do not realise our hands are full with kids sorry wen do we find time to cheat even though i wouldnt i love him dearly i know its hard amd is upsetting i have decided to isolate myself from alot of people and now feel down coz i have done that lost good friends but they obviously have trust issues or they are cheating themselves it all takes time if it dont solve best thing to do is go ur own ways for sake of all ur healths n also so ur child dnt pick up on it as it can affect them aswel i know its hard but u will do what u think is right Ok, here it is i met my now husband seven years ago. I have never really had this issue before. Could you two be distanced by something that your partner is interpreting as unfaithfulness? We have 2 children who are being affected greatly by this mess. Breaking out with horrible cold sores. We talked about it a lot and worked through many of those things and I also communicated feeling unresolved for her situation where she insists nothing happen although she did say the guy did try and kiss her.
The fear of starting over, being by myself was huge, but it had to be better than this everyday condemnation of everything I was and rejection of everything I needed. I opened my heart and my soul to this woman, I shared everything I had with her and expected nothing in return. It really must feel horrible to think I was with these other men in addition to the one I lied about, which was over and done with 13 years ago. I had a severe mental breakdown. It is his problem, not yours.
Not pretend it, because we cannot fool ourselves. Of course she wins the game there and it becomes a psychological fuck. His personality and the friendship that he convinced me we had. We have two kids and three houses together. My husband found in Facebook that I had a friend who he did not know and read through the chat thread. Why is my self-esteem so low when it comes to my marriage? I dont have any friends.
But just because my husband accuses me of not caring for the family the others follow suit. My husband has sworn to his statements and sometimes I think he really believes what he is telling himself. Reading your reply brought tears to my eyes. When he accuses you of cheating on him, you are not just angry—you are frustrated. After 2 years of school I was diagnosed with breast cancer, stage 4.
She is a very jealous lady and she even get jealous when I hug my niece. We were perfect and I just want that back. If not, what's the situation? However, his access to meth threatens your relationship a lot more than any affair does. I am scared my son is going to believe that he has to live his life on some one else option of him. You have a career, so when you get out, you can support yourself and your son and build it back up again. From the time I get up in the morning, he calls me to wake me up, tells me how to dress for the day, to be careful and not fall and hurt myself and he even tells me to drink coffee.
If he's not an impostor taking cruel advantage of you, he's almost certainly a man who needs therapy to deal with the black hole inside him. If they have been cheated on in the past, then they may fear that you will do the same. When I met him I was bad alcoholic and took picture n sent it to male and now regretting it for restof my life and paying for it. For more information, see our Meet the Team page. During the past six months I have been stuck. Other things have happened to prove him wrong such as the person he thought I was cheating with actually passed away a few years ago and I just found out about it long story. Yesterday while I was driving, something clicked in my brain.
He denies it and says it was a one night stand and the biggest mistake he has ever made in his life. But… I was cheating on her… ironic. What I'm saying is, I know how much this hurts. I can say the only thing I didnt like about my marriage is hes like talking to the wall, and he is never wrong. The firm practices divorce and family law only representing clients living in Memphis, Germantown, Collierville, Bartlett, Eads, Shelby Co. Life is to short for all of that. He starts calling the house phone and cell phone like a mad man.
We used to go out party and have fun. I do take a beating emotionally and like you i turn to his mom but it doesnt fix the situation. Everyone in my family hate him with a passion. I know he is guarded because of how things were with his first wife but my patience has been worn thin. I'll bet he has his own triggers from those problems of 3 years ago. Why does my spouse accuse me of cheating? And then he pays you back by ignoring you for 4 days. I basically think we all dont have to face all these deceit and lies from our spouse…in a case of mine wen i got sick and tired of all the lies and deceit i had to contact a friend of mine to get me the contact of one of the best hackers in the states.